Thank you Lent...
March 04, 2026
Last Friday was a difficult day for me. It marked the 26th anniversary of my mother’s death. Now she has been gone from this earth longer than I had her alive on this earth. So, it was a day of reflection of all that has happened over these many years. And in the realization of how much has changed, there was a thanksgiving as well: for the people who have journeyed with me through grief. Because my mother died when I was young, many people came into my life with intention, to walk with me through the pain:
My mother’s best friend, who journeyed with me from her illness in Houston to spreading her ashes in England, embraced me as a second daughter, and my children as her own grandchildren ever since.
My sorority sisters, who did not shy away from hard conversations that acknowledged the grief and found ways to honor my mother’s presence in landmark moments in my life like my wedding, ordination, and my children’s birth.
And one lifelong friend, who moved to Dallas, just after my mother died and became my literal walking partner. In those years of adjusting to life without my mother, we trained for two marathons together and talked out the pain in the process. These many years later, we still walk together on Saturday mornings.
I often wonder, if my mother had not died, would I be as close to all these people? Could it be that because of my grief, they drew near? Perhaps because of her death, my relationship with these people transformed into something stronger than it would have been otherwise. And because of their willingness to journey with me, I know God’s love more deeply than I would have otherwise.
Simon of Cyrene walked the journey of suffering beside Jesus. He could not take the cross away, but he did not leave Jesus alone in it. Only because of Jesus’ suffering did he have this opportunity. And though suffering is never a fate we wish upon our friends or strangers, it is an inevitable part of our human existence. Though Simon was thrust into a situation he did not cause and could not control or fix, he was obedient to the invitation. And while walking in the suffering, Simon discovered who Christ was.
Simon’s story reminds us that our willingness to walk the journey with those in pain brings us closer to understanding Jesus. If we have the courage to step into the journey with those in suffering, to help carry part of the burden, to shoulder the pain with them, be assured: we too, will discover who Christ is.
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