Have you only one blessing to give?
by Rev. Alexandra Robinson on October 15, 2025
As we have traveled on the journey of God’s blessing Abraham’s family, we arrive at one of the most famous stories of Scripture – the stealing of Esau’s birthright by Jacob. From birth, Jacob has been the “heel grabber” – connecting his name with snake-like deception, which becomes evident as he tricks his blind father Issac, into blessing him with his elder brother Esau’s birthright.
Though we are not familiar with a birthright – this is equivalent to an inheritance, yet all possessions are given to only one son. Culturally, this is always the firstborn son. But time and again, God’s story changes cultural norms, as has been the case with Cain and Abel, Issac and Ishmael and now Jacob and Esau. This pattern of God’s blessing to non-first born continues. But the “why” this happens is inverted, as Jacob and Esau’s story reveals more about Issac’s mindset than God’s will.
When Issac was blessed by God, his elder brother Ishmael was given a blessing by God. We learn he becomes a prince of many nations. But in Issac’s son’s case, the deceiver has entered. Issac sees only one blessing, instead of many. He gives it to the deceiver, Jacob. And when Esau realizes what has happened – he asks his father– “haven’t you reserved any blessing for me? Have you only one blessing to give?” Issac’s response is a poem of non-blessing, or curse. In other words, Issac believes the blessing is limited, so he shares only one blessing with Jacob and no blessing is given to Esau.
Just as much as we shout –“ that’s not fair!” - we know this is our human nature as well. We are more aligned with Issac’s understanding that blessings are limited, not abundant. Often we approach our lives with a mindset that we only have a small amount, so we shouldn’t waste it. We think we must be sparing on what we give, because generosity runs out. And so the deception continues.
Generosity is a mindset, more than any possession, belonging or status. And I believe this passage of Scripture is trying to get us to recognize that a mindset of scarcity is deceptive to how God is at work in the world. For God’s nature is abundantly generous, but we have to be in the right mindset to see the world that way, in order to share it.
So the passage asks a question of us : Have you only one blessing to give?
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